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When a father corrects a child and the mother cancels it, the child learns confusion instead

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of discipline.

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A house where parents disagree openly before the children will raise children who stop

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respecting authority.

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When the husband says A and the wife says B, the children quickly learn how to manipulate

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both.

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Correction is not the problem in many homes.

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Contradiction between parents is the real problem.

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If parents do not stand with one voice, their authority will slowly collapse.

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A child should never see the father as the enemy, or the mother as the escape route.

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When a mother always defends the child against the father, she weakens the discipline that

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protects the child.

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When a father corrects and the mother argues immediately, peace disappears and confusion

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enters the home.

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Children watch their parents very carefully.

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They quickly learn where division exists.

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A divided voice in parenting produces scattered children.

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Unity in parenting produces stability.

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A wise couple may disagree privately, but they must present unity before the children.

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When parents fight over discipline in front of the child, the child becomes the silent

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winner.

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A home cannot stand strong with two opposing authorities.

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Marriage requires alignment.

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Many children lose respect for their fathers because mothers constantly cancel the father's

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voice.

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Parents must not compete for the child's affection.

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They must cooperate for the child's future.