WEBVTT 00:00.000 --> 00:00.280 Hello? 00:01.080 --> 00:02.020 Can I speak to Denise, please? 00:03.400 --> 00:04.320 Uh, this is she. 00:04.820 --> 00:05.740 Hey, Denise, how are you? 00:05.840 --> 00:07.660 This is Jubal from Brooke and Jubal in the morning. 00:09.580 --> 00:10.380 Uh, OK. 00:10.900 --> 00:11.640 What's going on? 00:12.240 --> 00:13.720 I'm calling you because we recently 00:13.720 --> 00:16.200 got an email about you from somebody who listens to our show. 00:17.420 --> 00:18.140 I'm sorry. 00:18.580 --> 00:19.600 What's going on here? 00:20.040 --> 00:21.480 I don't understand. 00:21.920 --> 00:23.320 It's a segment we do on our show called 00:23.320 --> 00:24.080 the second date update. 00:24.980 --> 00:26.120 Um, OK. 00:27.520 --> 00:29.380 John asked us to give you a call 00:29.380 --> 00:31.380 and find out what went wrong on your date 00:31.380 --> 00:33.460 because I guess he's tried to get a hold of you a few times 00:33.460 --> 00:34.280 and you won't call him back. 00:36.240 --> 00:37.040 Um, OK. 00:38.440 --> 00:40.780 I'll tell you what John told us because we talked to him. 00:41.100 --> 00:43.320 And he says he thinks that you're not calling him back 00:43.320 --> 00:45.180 because of a moment at the end of your date 00:45.180 --> 00:46.460 when he complained about the bill 00:46.460 --> 00:48.260 and like the manager had to come over. 00:48.700 --> 00:50.700 And he says he felt really stupid after that point. 00:52.180 --> 00:56.500 Oh, um, now he lost me before that. 00:57.300 --> 00:57.660 Whoa. 00:58.060 --> 00:58.980 What'd he do before that? 00:59.940 --> 01:03.900 I mean, guys, I don't know if I want to talk about this. 01:04.620 --> 01:07.300 Was it where he asked if you wanted to go back to his place? 01:08.280 --> 01:09.540 And you said no? 01:11.200 --> 01:13.400 He told you a lot about our date, apparently. 01:13.780 --> 01:15.380 He did. He told us all about it 01:15.380 --> 01:16.840 because he's really curious what he did wrong 01:16.840 --> 01:17.940 and why you don't want to go out with him again. 01:18.340 --> 01:20.260 I wouldn't blame you if you didn't want to go out 01:20.260 --> 01:22.140 with him. I feel like an hour into the date 01:22.140 --> 01:23.780 and he's asking to go back to his apartment. 01:23.920 --> 01:25.240 It sounds like a booty call, almost. 01:26.040 --> 01:28.460 I mean, I didn't even want to be there 01:28.460 --> 01:31.760 after the first 15 seconds of talking to him. 01:32.060 --> 01:32.420 What? 01:32.760 --> 01:36.600 You didn't like him that soon into the date? 01:37.540 --> 01:37.900 Yeah. 01:38.840 --> 01:40.280 That doesn't make any sense to me 01:40.280 --> 01:42.560 because you hung out with him for an hour or so still 01:42.560 --> 01:43.700 and had drinks with the guy. 01:43.860 --> 01:45.080 If you didn't want to be there at all, 01:45.140 --> 01:45.900 why didn't you leave earlier? 01:46.700 --> 01:48.960 I don't know. I guess I felt kind of stuck. 01:50.140 --> 01:52.880 Like I needed to keep going through with it. 01:53.440 --> 01:54.600 So you were looking forward to it 01:54.600 --> 01:56.860 and then 15 seconds into the date he turned you off? 01:57.440 --> 01:57.860 Yeah. 01:58.440 --> 01:59.480 So what happened? 02:01.100 --> 02:03.080 So I walked into the restaurant 02:04.080 --> 02:06.580 and I had butterflies 02:06.580 --> 02:09.460 because I was excited to see him again 02:09.460 --> 02:12.600 and he was already there. 02:12.740 --> 02:13.980 He had a table for us 02:13.980 --> 02:16.840 and he had pulled out the chair for me. 02:17.160 --> 02:18.580 He told me I looked beautiful. 02:18.580 --> 02:20.140 He kissed me on the cheek. 02:20.400 --> 02:21.680 Oh, that monster. 02:22.280 --> 02:22.780 Oh, God. 02:23.140 --> 02:23.460 Geez. 02:23.880 --> 02:24.660 Wait, wait, wait. 02:26.140 --> 02:29.400 So we sit down and I asked him. 02:29.500 --> 02:31.500 I was like, hey, you know, how's it going? 02:31.780 --> 02:32.380 How have you been? 02:32.840 --> 02:35.860 And he answered, oh, God. 02:37.040 --> 02:40.980 He says, this is going to sound bad, 02:41.520 --> 02:43.380 but I forgot your name. 02:44.560 --> 02:46.640 Oh, that's the worst. 02:46.640 --> 02:49.020 What are you telling me? 02:49.240 --> 02:50.500 How did he not know your name? 02:51.300 --> 02:52.380 I mean, I don't know. 02:52.600 --> 02:55.600 We talked for like an hour and I laughed. 02:55.760 --> 02:56.940 I thought he was kidding. 02:57.220 --> 02:57.500 Yeah. 02:58.220 --> 02:59.500 But he wasn't joking. 03:00.160 --> 03:02.160 No, he says, no, I'm serious. 03:02.700 --> 03:05.540 And he said, look how I saved you in my phone 03:05.540 --> 03:07.400 and he showed me his phone 03:08.160 --> 03:10.400 and he had saved me in his phone 03:10.400 --> 03:13.040 as hot girl from the club. 03:15.120 --> 03:17.100 I have done that before too. 03:17.260 --> 03:18.000 I currently do that. 03:18.100 --> 03:18.340 Yeah. 03:18.500 --> 03:19.660 And you'll be like texting with somebody 03:19.660 --> 03:20.820 like I have no idea what her name is. 03:20.900 --> 03:22.080 I hope she says it at some point. 03:22.220 --> 03:24.960 I mean, I don't know any girl that wants to be known 03:24.960 --> 03:27.080 as the hot girl from the club. 03:27.400 --> 03:28.100 I don't know. 03:28.220 --> 03:29.860 I don't think it's that bad of an incident. 03:30.160 --> 03:30.500 I mean. 03:30.680 --> 03:32.080 Yeah, but if the guy's sitting down with you 03:32.080 --> 03:33.160 on a date and then has to go, 03:33.200 --> 03:35.080 hey, I know we've been talking back 03:35.080 --> 03:36.160 and forth planning this whole date, 03:36.220 --> 03:37.700 but I don't know your name at all. 03:37.820 --> 03:39.160 He doesn't care about your name. 03:39.500 --> 03:39.840 Yeah. 03:39.900 --> 03:40.920 He was wasted. 03:40.920 --> 03:42.320 So what did you say to him 03:42.940 --> 03:44.680 after you found out he didn't know your name? 03:45.200 --> 03:45.920 I don't know. 03:46.080 --> 03:48.340 I kind of felt a little like caught off guard. 03:48.660 --> 03:51.580 It's like, oh, okay, cool. 03:52.060 --> 03:53.060 Well, I'm Denise. 03:54.880 --> 03:56.460 I didn't know how to respond. 03:56.620 --> 03:57.720 I wanted him to be mad. 03:57.960 --> 03:59.280 Were you just like disappointed 03:59.280 --> 04:01.420 because you really had this crush on this guy 04:01.420 --> 04:03.640 and then he didn't even have enough energy 04:03.640 --> 04:04.920 to put into knowing your name? 04:05.360 --> 04:05.680 Yeah. 04:05.820 --> 04:07.820 I was really looking forward to this date 04:07.820 --> 04:09.280 and then that's how it starts. 04:09.280 --> 04:10.920 And then from then on, I was like, 04:11.000 --> 04:12.480 well, I guess I'll just order a bunch of drinks.