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Disrespecting the woman, yet expecting her to keep respecting you is as selfish as it gets.

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That's dominance, not love.

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I thought you were smart, but I clearly see you're not a smart man.

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A woman doesn't just wake up one day and become stubborn, or distant, or emotionally cold.

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People become guarded for a reason.

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Those reactions are not random.

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They are protective responses.

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They are trauma responses to your abuse.

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What you're seeing is not attitude.

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It's defense.

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It's her heart learning to survive what it keeps experiencing.

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When a woman feels repeatedly disrespected, neglected, or emotionally ignored,

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her vulnerability doesn't disappear.

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It hides.

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And what you call stubbornness is often her way of protecting what you have been careless with.

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This is a trauma response to repeated emotional pain.

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So if you constantly dismiss her, overlook her, treat her feelings like they don't matter,

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don't turn around and label her as disrespectful, not submissive, and stubborn.

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I know that you're favourite terminology.

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Examine your behaviour before you criticise her reaction to it.

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She's not asking for perfection.

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She's asking for something...