WEBVTT 00:00.000 --> 00:02.440 I was a selfish bitch in my marriage. 00:02.620 --> 00:03.700 Nothing was ever good enough. 00:03.880 --> 00:06.420 I took him for granted and now I lost that. 00:06.580 --> 00:08.480 These are the videos that women need to watch. 00:08.700 --> 00:10.920 It's been 20 days since I was last cracked 00:10.920 --> 00:12.920 and I didn't even get a good night kiss. 00:13.280 --> 00:16.840 You probably used language similar to 20 days 00:16.840 --> 00:19.520 since I last got cracked on the date 00:19.520 --> 00:21.380 and he realized who he was dealing with 00:21.380 --> 00:23.860 and that guy probably wasn't looking for a hot. 00:24.160 --> 00:28.520 Do you think that women fought for the right 00:28.520 --> 00:29.740 to have our own money? 00:30.020 --> 00:34.820 Just to turn around and give that to a man? 00:35.280 --> 00:38.020 If guys wanted to take away your rights, 00:38.300 --> 00:39.560 they would do it. 00:39.940 --> 00:41.500 Men, get off your ass and go help your wife 00:41.500 --> 00:42.380 or your girlfriend in the kitchen. 00:42.640 --> 00:43.320 Who bought the food? 00:43.700 --> 00:44.080 I'm curious. 00:44.340 --> 00:45.920 That's not even a thing I really think about. 00:46.040 --> 00:48.280 It's like, what's this man's body count? 00:48.640 --> 00:50.660 Yeah, honey, it doesn't matter to you. 00:50.740 --> 00:51.760 Again, I will tell you. 00:54.920 --> 00:57.620 Hey, y'all, welcome to a brand new episode 00:57.620 --> 00:59.020 of The Jetta Diabela Show. 00:59.160 --> 01:00.240 I'm so glad you're here. 01:00.360 --> 01:01.260 Today's show is fire. 01:01.680 --> 01:02.280 It is fire. 01:02.700 --> 01:05.240 And we are leading off with a clip that went viral. 01:05.920 --> 01:08.300 A woman admits that she was an awful wife. 01:09.160 --> 01:09.960 Oh yeah. 01:10.300 --> 01:11.080 Let's hear the rant. 01:11.260 --> 01:12.120 Number one, let's hit it. 01:14.180 --> 01:16.720 I was a selfish bitch in my marriage. 01:18.060 --> 01:19.660 I've been divorced now almost four years, 01:19.780 --> 01:22.120 but I was married to my ex-husband, 16 years, 01:22.260 --> 01:23.580 and with him, 18 years. 01:24.140 --> 01:25.740 And again, I was a selfish bitch. 01:25.940 --> 01:26.960 Nothing was ever good enough. 01:26.960 --> 01:28.160 I took him for granted. 01:29.540 --> 01:32.000 He seriously rolled out the red carpet for me. 01:32.280 --> 01:34.360 He was sweet, kind, generous. 01:34.840 --> 01:37.020 He told me how much he loved me five times a day. 01:37.080 --> 01:39.320 He told me how beautiful I was every day. 01:40.300 --> 01:41.820 If he'd wake me up in the morning 01:41.820 --> 01:42.780 because he knows I love massages, 01:42.980 --> 01:44.340 wake me up rubbing my shoulders. 01:44.560 --> 01:46.040 He'd rub my feet every evening 01:46.040 --> 01:46.980 while we were watching TV. 01:47.560 --> 01:48.740 If I said, for example, 01:48.960 --> 01:50.980 oh, I'm craving a Dr. Pepper, 01:51.460 --> 01:53.040 he'd be like, okay, let me go to the corner store 01:53.040 --> 01:53.440 and get it. 01:53.520 --> 01:55.080 He adored me. 01:55.080 --> 01:56.740 He was amazing. 01:57.180 --> 01:59.320 Like, on paper, it's whatever girl wants, seriously. 02:00.840 --> 02:02.420 And yeah, I took it for granted. 02:02.860 --> 02:04.580 And now I lost that, right? 02:05.940 --> 02:09.220 And I carried a lot of guilt because I caused it. 02:09.480 --> 02:10.660 That's my biggest regret in life, 02:10.760 --> 02:13.320 is not saving the whole family aspect. 02:14.280 --> 02:16.300 The grass is not always greener on the other side, ladies. 02:16.480 --> 02:16.760 It's not. 02:18.040 --> 02:19.000 I'm good now. 02:19.140 --> 02:22.180 I feel great and he's super happy with his girlfriend. 02:22.340 --> 02:24.120 And honestly, I could not be happier for him 02:24.120 --> 02:28.460 because he deserved to be loved and cared about 02:28.460 --> 02:31.740 and respected as he should have always been. 02:32.620 --> 02:34.260 So I'm so happy that he's happy. 02:35.040 --> 02:36.240 Anyways, what I'm saying, ladies, 02:37.000 --> 02:38.360 the grass is not greener on the other side. 02:38.540 --> 02:40.080 If you have a good guy, take care of him. 02:40.360 --> 02:41.840 Take care of him. 02:42.520 --> 02:44.420 Trust me, there's nothing good out in these streets. 02:45.780 --> 02:47.720 He seriously set the bar. 02:47.980 --> 02:49.040 He set the bar. 02:49.140 --> 02:52.720 And ultimately, what I always wanted, I had all along. 02:53.220 --> 02:54.880 So we have good right in front of us 02:54.880 --> 02:57.220 and we don't know how to take care of it. 02:57.660 --> 02:58.440 Good on her. 02:58.780 --> 03:02.280 And I'm sure that these videos are not easy to make, right? 03:02.560 --> 03:03.860 But good on her, right? 03:04.020 --> 03:06.060 And maybe there's a lot of women out there that we cover. 03:06.420 --> 03:09.160 In fact, we know they should be paying attention to this. 03:09.360 --> 03:09.800 Should they not? 03:10.220 --> 03:11.680 So this is a woman who was married, 03:11.780 --> 03:13.820 she said she was married for 16 years 03:14.320 --> 03:16.660 to a really good guy who did everything for her 03:16.660 --> 03:20.580 down to foot massages and being kind, 03:20.580 --> 03:22.400 being loyal, being faithful. 03:22.680 --> 03:24.940 If she wanted something at the corner store running out. 03:25.080 --> 03:28.240 I mean, he was doing for her and she took advantage of it. 03:28.360 --> 03:29.880 Now, what happened there? 03:30.120 --> 03:32.260 She probably thought that, well, you know what? 03:32.440 --> 03:35.520 On the s***, XYZ, oh, I deserve this, 03:35.540 --> 03:36.900 that I can always replace him. 03:37.660 --> 03:39.780 Women go through this, the grass is always greener, 03:39.780 --> 03:40.700 type of thing, right? 03:40.840 --> 03:42.960 Maybe she was bored, maybe he was doing too much 03:42.960 --> 03:43.860 and she got bored. 03:43.960 --> 03:45.820 I always tell you that the guys need to like 03:45.820 --> 03:48.420 hold frame in the sense that you can be a gentleman. 03:48.420 --> 03:50.560 In fact, if you have a really good woman, 03:50.700 --> 03:52.040 treat her well, but when you see 03:52.040 --> 03:53.580 that they're starting to not appreciate it, 03:53.620 --> 03:54.860 starting to take advantage of you, 03:55.200 --> 03:56.380 starting to treat you like dirt, 03:56.980 --> 03:58.380 you gotta put your foot down, 03:58.460 --> 03:59.240 you gotta step in and be like, 03:59.280 --> 04:00.500 hey, listen, I don't like your attitude. 04:00.740 --> 04:01.740 That's not gonna work for me. 04:01.780 --> 04:04.320 You got a holding frame means that you have self-respect. 04:04.760 --> 04:06.100 Meaning you don't get walked all over, 04:06.200 --> 04:07.240 you don't get treated like garbage. 04:07.740 --> 04:08.980 You don't let women do this, 04:09.140 --> 04:09.880 oh, you know what? 04:09.960 --> 04:11.380 I'm just gonna take, take, take and not give. 04:11.980 --> 04:15.020 You don't let, he needed to step up at some point 04:15.020 --> 04:17.280 in that situation and draw the line, right? 04:17.280 --> 04:19.560 Put her in her place and it sounds like he didn't. 04:19.560 --> 04:20.680 Now, maybe that would have worked. 04:20.780 --> 04:21.200 Maybe you wouldn't. 04:21.360 --> 04:23.600 Maybe she was a grass is always greener kind of girl. 04:23.680 --> 04:26.080 Maybe she thought she could replace him really easily. 04:26.420 --> 04:27.740 And guess what she learned? 04:28.140 --> 04:28.800 She couldn't. 04:29.300 --> 04:31.140 She, that situation ended. 04:31.280 --> 04:33.260 It sounded like they have a family too on top of it all, 04:33.280 --> 04:35.260 which obviously this is all extremely selfish. 04:35.280 --> 04:36.060 When you have a family, 04:36.180 --> 04:37.980 you prioritize your family, you do everything you can. 04:38.060 --> 04:39.380 You don't take advantage of a good man 04:39.380 --> 04:40.620 and then let him go because the grass 04:40.620 --> 04:41.560 is always greener, right? 04:41.600 --> 04:42.800 And she knows that now, right? 04:42.880 --> 04:44.180 To her credit, she knows that now. 04:44.580 --> 04:46.800 But he got a girlfriend who's treating him well 04:46.800 --> 04:48.440 and she's alone, right? 04:48.640 --> 04:50.040 She's alone and she, guess what? 04:50.140 --> 04:51.100 She went out into the dating world 04:51.100 --> 04:53.480 and found out that the grass wasn't always greener, right? 04:53.580 --> 04:54.900 And that he had set the bar high 04:54.900 --> 04:58.440 and that this magic Prince Charming from Cinderella 04:58.440 --> 04:59.860 was not just gonna appear for her 04:59.860 --> 05:01.880 and do everything right all the time 05:01.880 --> 05:03.620 and be at her back and call and all of these things. 05:04.060 --> 05:05.300 And she had to self-reflect. 05:05.620 --> 05:09.820 She had to get rejected ultimately to self-reflect 05:09.820 --> 05:11.600 because what happened was here is that she, 05:11.940 --> 05:13.080 he was doing and doing and doing, 05:13.260 --> 05:14.440 she gets out into the dating 05:14.440 --> 05:15.880 and they probably were like, I'm not gonna, 05:15.880 --> 05:17.100 some guy probably said to her, 05:17.180 --> 05:18.560 I'm not gonna take your, right? 05:19.420 --> 05:20.900 She needed to be put in her place 05:20.900 --> 05:22.380 to actually self-reflect and see 05:22.380 --> 05:25.380 that her behavior had been so toxic and so bad 05:25.380 --> 05:26.560 and that she had been the cause, 05:26.740 --> 05:29.260 the root cause of that marriage disintegrating. 05:29.760 --> 05:31.220 So this is really important. 05:31.420 --> 05:33.280 These are the videos that women need to watch. 05:33.720 --> 05:36.620 These are the videos that these young TikTok 05:37.380 --> 05:39.400 ingrate wives, they need to watch these 05:39.400 --> 05:40.860 and see, see what you're doing. 05:41.240 --> 05:43.480 If your husband wakes up one day and says, 05:43.480 --> 05:46.180 I'm tired and leaves and actually leaves, 05:46.340 --> 05:48.340 you're gonna be up Creek, right? 05:48.860 --> 05:49.540 Because you're gonna be trying 05:49.540 --> 05:50.960 to replace a really good man. 05:51.180 --> 05:52.300 And guess what? 05:52.440 --> 05:55.040 The world's not full, you know, back to back 05:55.040 --> 05:57.100 of guys that are gonna do and die for you 05:57.100 --> 05:58.820 that are gonna take a little bit of your right? 05:58.920 --> 06:01.060 Because listen, it just doesn't work like that. 06:01.200 --> 06:04.420 So now she's probably having to become a different human, 06:04.640 --> 06:05.020 right? 06:05.420 --> 06:07.040 To be able to try to attract somebody. 06:07.040 --> 06:09.760 And obviously it gets harder as you get older, right? 06:09.840 --> 06:10.680 It's not as easy. 06:10.840 --> 06:12.320 You're not, now she's got kids. 06:12.720 --> 06:14.240 It's a whole different ball game. 06:14.700 --> 06:16.480 So I wanna give her credit for doing this 06:16.480 --> 06:19.100 because she's trying to, women like this, by the way, 06:19.120 --> 06:20.640 are the ones that are trying to help women. 06:20.880 --> 06:22.660 Not the one out ones out there being like, 06:22.740 --> 06:24.260 oh, you know what, you're worth it 06:24.260 --> 06:26.460 and screw all these guys and guys suck 06:26.460 --> 06:28.020 and they're not helping women. 06:28.220 --> 06:29.400 These women are helping women 06:29.400 --> 06:32.260 because they're saying, I messed up, I'm owning up, 06:32.340 --> 06:33.900 I'm taking accountability for what I did. 06:34.000 --> 06:34.840 Don't do what I did. 06:35.180 --> 06:36.160 Don't do what I did. 06:36.280 --> 06:38.780 You'll land in Creek and you won't be happy. 06:39.000 --> 06:40.520 The grass is not always greener. 06:40.580 --> 06:41.000 What a message. 06:41.000 --> 06:41.740 Good on you, honey. 06:41.960 --> 06:43.220 Good on you. 06:43.440 --> 06:45.120 Hit that subscribe button for me right now. 06:45.400 --> 06:46.840 Hit that like button, show some love, 06:46.940 --> 06:47.900 get in the track, get busy, 06:48.040 --> 06:49.160 get in the comments, get busy. 06:49.600 --> 06:51.440 Gotta hit sub because when you hit subscribe, 06:51.520 --> 06:52.540 that helps us with the algorithm. 06:52.680 --> 06:53.560 It helps us with sponsors. 06:53.760 --> 06:54.940 It helps us to grow. 06:55.260 --> 06:55.780 I love y'all. 06:56.720 --> 06:57.100 I love ya. 06:58.460 --> 06:59.280 Okay, number two. 06:59.400 --> 07:00.240 You know how women are always saying, 07:00.380 --> 07:01.820 oh, we want respect. 07:02.460 --> 07:03.200 We want respect. 07:03.300 --> 07:04.840 Well, let's listen to how this one talks. 07:07.060 --> 07:09.960 It's 2.30 a.m. and I just finished a first date. 07:09.960 --> 07:11.940 And you would think 2.30 a.m. 07:11.980 --> 07:13.180 must have been a great date. 07:13.400 --> 07:15.100 I'm walking myself home. 07:15.220 --> 07:18.060 I shaved every single crevice of my body. 07:18.160 --> 07:20.440 It's been 20 days since I was last cracked 07:20.440 --> 07:22.440 and I didn't even get a good night kiss. 07:23.000 --> 07:25.560 Mind you, we were five minutes from my apartment 07:25.560 --> 07:27.520 and he wouldn't even walk me home. 07:27.720 --> 07:29.360 Okay, right in a little note, 07:29.520 --> 07:32.480 five minutes from apartment, no walk home. 07:32.580 --> 07:33.240 Can't imagine why. 07:33.620 --> 07:36.180 Okay, so she's walking herself home. 07:36.320 --> 07:37.860 She shaves every ounce of her body. 07:37.900 --> 07:38.920 The only reason women do that 07:38.920 --> 07:40.200 is because they're looking to get some, right? 07:40.780 --> 07:41.520 That's the only reason. 07:41.700 --> 07:43.660 If women don't, like, all the grooming is just, 07:44.140 --> 07:45.800 that type of grooming is just to get some. 07:46.180 --> 07:48.340 Honey, let me tell you why he didn't walk you home. 07:49.280 --> 07:51.520 Because you probably used a language 07:51.520 --> 07:56.300 similar to 20 days since I last got cracked on the date 07:56.300 --> 07:58.320 and he realized who he was dealing with 07:58.320 --> 08:01.520 and that guy probably wasn't looking for a, right? 08:02.140 --> 08:05.100 There's, this comes through in your personality 08:05.840 --> 08:08.140 that you're sleeping around, 08:08.800 --> 08:10.260 that you're looking to get some, 08:10.640 --> 08:12.000 that you're looking for a first date 08:12.000 --> 08:14.280 that goes till 2.30 a.m. 08:14.320 --> 08:16.140 And you wish it had gone later 08:16.140 --> 08:17.700 because the nasty was happening. 08:18.640 --> 08:19.580 He got that sense. 08:19.860 --> 08:23.460 Guys don't respect women who act and talk like this. 08:23.740 --> 08:25.060 Now it's interesting that this guy 08:25.060 --> 08:26.840 didn't even do the nasty with her, right? 08:27.000 --> 08:28.880 Some guys will decide, 08:29.080 --> 08:30.220 oh, this is like a one-eyed stand. 08:30.280 --> 08:30.840 I'm just gonna do it. 08:30.940 --> 08:32.220 You shouldn't, not good. 08:32.660 --> 08:34.200 Some of y'all do it though, right? 08:34.200 --> 08:36.280 Some guys will just use that situation 08:36.280 --> 08:37.180 and be like, you know what? 08:37.240 --> 08:38.220 She's looking to get used. 08:38.400 --> 08:40.540 I'm looking, let me just get my, you know, 08:40.600 --> 08:41.820 quick little thrill out of this 08:41.820 --> 08:43.460 and not call her tomorrow or something like that. 08:43.480 --> 08:44.460 He didn't even do that. 08:45.080 --> 08:46.440 Probably because this guy was looking 08:46.440 --> 08:47.480 for something different, right? 08:47.560 --> 08:49.140 If he's not, if he gets the vibe 08:49.140 --> 08:50.420 that you're easy on day one 08:50.420 --> 08:51.740 and he doesn't sleep with you, 08:51.860 --> 08:53.560 it's because he's not looking for easy. 08:53.660 --> 08:55.440 He's looking for some quality situation 08:55.440 --> 08:56.320 and you ain't it. 08:56.680 --> 08:58.060 Honey, you ain't it, right? 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11:20.780 --> 11:22.540 Really try it, I'm telling you it will change your life. 11:22.540 --> 11:24.020 You'll never buy a store bought olive oil again 11:24.020 --> 11:25.760 and the spice mix will change your life. 11:26.020 --> 11:26.900 Just do it, trust me. 11:26.900 --> 11:27.700 You gotta trust me, man. 11:27.780 --> 11:29.700 I bring stuff here that I love and that I try. 11:30.200 --> 11:30.720 You gotta trust me. 11:30.960 --> 11:33.640 All right, number three is kind of like a word salad, 11:33.780 --> 11:34.800 but it's an important one. 11:34.980 --> 11:35.500 Let's hit it. 11:37.080 --> 11:39.080 Okay, genuine question for those that say 11:39.080 --> 11:41.840 that women should go 50-50 in a relationship with a man 11:41.840 --> 11:44.000 because it's the 21st century and we're equals now. 11:44.640 --> 11:48.820 Do you think that women fought, fought, by the way, 11:48.960 --> 11:52.560 fought, fought for the right to have our own money, 11:53.080 --> 11:55.680 have our own bank accounts, have our own property, 11:56.520 --> 12:01.220 just to turn around and give that to a man, 12:01.480 --> 12:03.800 to the same people that were fighting us on it, 12:03.840 --> 12:06.500 that were like, no, you're not equal. 12:06.960 --> 12:09.220 Oh man, I wish you could have a bank account, 12:09.220 --> 12:10.040 but you're just not equal. 12:10.480 --> 12:11.460 You're not equal to us. 12:11.680 --> 12:14.600 Oh no, dang it, oh man. 12:15.220 --> 12:17.780 And then we fought them so f***ing hard 12:17.780 --> 12:23.340 that they were like, okay, fine, but we get half. 12:23.840 --> 12:25.880 And you think the women that were doing the fighting 12:25.880 --> 12:28.300 were like, yeah, that totally makes sense. 12:28.720 --> 12:32.380 I did all of this just so I could split it with you. 12:32.740 --> 12:35.400 I did all of this so that you could have half the money 12:35.400 --> 12:37.100 that I'm working so hard for. 12:39.360 --> 12:40.860 Do you have brain hemorrhage? 12:41.080 --> 12:42.680 Hey, hey, do you have a tumor? 12:43.620 --> 12:45.220 Cause that happens, by the way. 12:45.400 --> 12:47.560 Like some people do develop tumors in their brains 12:47.560 --> 12:49.620 and they become violent and crazy 12:49.620 --> 12:51.160 and then they get them taken out 12:51.160 --> 12:52.640 and they become normal again. 12:52.640 --> 12:53.980 That might be happening with you 12:53.980 --> 12:56.260 because your words aren't making any sense. 12:56.860 --> 12:57.880 I saw it on the pit. 12:58.380 --> 12:59.420 I would get that checked out. 12:59.840 --> 13:02.140 Okay, so this whole video is a word salad 13:02.140 --> 13:04.540 from like a little bit of a Dumbo, just saying. 13:05.180 --> 13:06.600 I'm not talking about her ears either. 13:06.740 --> 13:10.020 This is like the light up here is not on too bright, you know? 13:10.960 --> 13:13.380 Okay, first of all, I love the perception, 13:13.500 --> 13:15.000 well, guys fought us on equality 13:15.000 --> 13:17.220 and guys from equality, I'm gonna say 13:17.220 --> 13:18.480 because men and women aren't equal. 13:18.580 --> 13:19.740 We're not the same, okay? 13:19.980 --> 13:20.740 And she knows that, 13:20.740 --> 13:23.580 which is why she expects men to pay for things 13:23.580 --> 13:24.820 and to not go 50-50. 13:24.940 --> 13:27.420 She's inherently defeating her entire argument 13:27.420 --> 13:28.380 with her own speech. 13:29.380 --> 13:31.220 But honey, again, I will tell you, 13:31.660 --> 13:34.360 if guys wanted to take away your rights, 13:34.740 --> 13:35.900 they would do it. 13:36.220 --> 13:36.940 They're stronger. 13:37.720 --> 13:39.700 They would just take it away. 13:40.400 --> 13:42.920 This is not, guys didn't fight you and fight you 13:42.920 --> 13:45.780 and you fought them and won and got these things. 13:45.860 --> 13:46.720 That's not how it worked. 13:47.140 --> 13:49.280 Society evolved and some may feel 13:49.280 --> 13:50.180 that some of these evolutions 13:50.180 --> 13:51.820 aren't necessarily good, frankly. 13:52.620 --> 13:54.600 And some may feel that some of these evolutions are amazing. 13:54.880 --> 13:56.600 Whatever your stand is, society evolved. 13:56.880 --> 13:58.720 People's thoughts on these things evolved, 13:58.780 --> 14:00.220 whether it be who has bank accounts 14:00.220 --> 14:02.520 and who votes and whatever it may be. 14:03.080 --> 14:05.740 But if there was truly going to be a desire 14:05.740 --> 14:07.080 on the part of men, 14:07.340 --> 14:09.580 and why we mean majority of men, right? 14:10.000 --> 14:11.920 To stop you from doing these things, 14:11.980 --> 14:13.460 don't you think it would have worked? 14:13.900 --> 14:16.500 You just wouldn't be getting away with all of this now, 14:16.840 --> 14:17.100 right? 14:17.100 --> 14:19.840 If men really wanted you to not have the right to vote, 14:19.940 --> 14:20.720 you wouldn't have it. 14:21.020 --> 14:22.740 You wouldn't have it, okay? 14:22.880 --> 14:24.240 So stop thinking, well, we fought. 14:24.400 --> 14:25.340 What'd you get out? 14:25.700 --> 14:28.120 Your cannons and your bows and arrows, honey? 14:28.520 --> 14:31.000 I mean, really, be realistic about what you're saying. 14:31.600 --> 14:34.240 Men decided that they wanted you to have these things 14:34.240 --> 14:35.460 and that's why you have them. 14:35.820 --> 14:37.580 And it could easily be taken away 14:37.580 --> 14:38.760 if that were the goal. 14:39.220 --> 14:39.720 It's not. 14:40.200 --> 14:41.640 Okay, that's number one. 14:42.820 --> 14:44.920 Secondly, in one breath she's saying, 14:45.960 --> 14:47.320 guys don't believe we're equal. 14:47.660 --> 14:49.400 Guys don't give us the credit that we're equal. 14:49.540 --> 14:50.540 They don't want us to be equal. 14:51.060 --> 14:52.060 Well, honey, if you're equal, 14:52.280 --> 14:54.680 then why aren't you paying for half of everything? 14:54.940 --> 14:57.040 If you're equal, then why is the expectation 14:57.040 --> 14:58.920 that a man would do all of these things? 14:59.320 --> 14:59.700 Why? 15:00.160 --> 15:01.100 Because you're not equal. 15:01.440 --> 15:03.140 You have a different expectation of men 15:03.140 --> 15:04.300 because you're not equal. 15:04.440 --> 15:06.200 You're not equal, you're not the same. 15:06.580 --> 15:08.220 So just acknowledge that, right? 15:08.460 --> 15:11.380 It's like I wanna be equal when it serves me. 15:11.740 --> 15:13.360 When it comes time to go to the voting booth, 15:13.480 --> 15:14.480 I wanna be equal. 15:14.480 --> 15:15.380 I wanna be equal. 15:15.600 --> 15:17.300 But when it comes time to pay all the bills 15:17.300 --> 15:18.900 and it comes time to do all these things, 15:19.160 --> 15:19.780 oh, never mind. 15:19.920 --> 15:21.260 I'm a damsel in distress, right? 15:22.280 --> 15:24.820 This is why it's so jaded. 15:25.340 --> 15:27.580 And this is what happens with the voting argument too, 15:27.680 --> 15:28.320 where guys are like, 15:28.360 --> 15:30.080 okay, do you wanna have to sign up for civil service? 15:31.440 --> 15:33.460 No, but we have to do that in order to vote. 15:33.920 --> 15:35.280 Oh, well, I'm not doing that, 15:35.300 --> 15:36.160 but I should get to vote anyway 15:36.160 --> 15:37.020 because we're equal. 15:37.660 --> 15:39.220 Oh, so then if we're equal, 15:39.380 --> 15:40.620 then you should have to sign up for civil service? 15:40.820 --> 15:43.980 No, because it's not about equality. 15:43.980 --> 15:48.460 They want to be given a special set of rules for them 15:48.460 --> 15:50.040 and they wanna be able to say we're equal 15:50.040 --> 15:51.900 but not actually have to live by the standards 15:51.900 --> 15:54.580 that true equality would require them to live by. 15:54.780 --> 15:55.140 It's horny. 15:55.520 --> 15:57.200 Oh, God, nauseating. 15:57.420 --> 15:59.080 The whole thing is just a word salad, right? 15:59.580 --> 16:01.720 And then you're like, oh my God, honey, 16:01.860 --> 16:04.340 you're like making my argument with your own word salad. 16:06.880 --> 16:08.580 Okay, number four is a doozy. 16:08.780 --> 16:09.220 Let's play it. 16:09.240 --> 16:10.400 I'm not even gonna lead in with this one. 16:10.440 --> 16:11.860 This one is just ooh, ooh, ooh. 16:14.200 --> 16:15.920 Men, get off your ass and go help your wife 16:15.920 --> 16:16.800 or your girlfriend in the kitchen 16:16.800 --> 16:18.220 because I promise you she's probably 16:18.220 --> 16:19.500 way too hot for you anyway. 16:19.780 --> 16:21.540 You should be lucky she even gave you the time of day. 16:21.600 --> 16:23.120 My ex-boyfriend used to come over to my house 16:23.120 --> 16:24.200 every Saturday and Sunday 16:24.200 --> 16:25.680 and before he would get there, 16:25.780 --> 16:26.780 I would go to the grocery store 16:26.780 --> 16:28.660 and prepare all the meals, cook all the meals 16:28.660 --> 16:30.780 and I did this for him and I for weeks. 16:30.860 --> 16:32.980 And eventually I got so fed up of doing all the cooking 16:32.980 --> 16:34.180 and all the cleanup afterwards. 16:34.440 --> 16:36.020 So I brought it up to him and I said, 16:36.040 --> 16:36.820 hey, it would be nice 16:36.820 --> 16:38.140 if you could contribute a little bit. 16:38.160 --> 16:40.980 He was so okay every single weekend watching me 16:40.980 --> 16:43.160 in the kitchen, not offering his assistance, 16:43.160 --> 16:44.120 not contributing. 16:44.300 --> 16:45.520 I can't help but wonder to myself, 16:45.760 --> 16:47.300 did this man even really like me 16:47.300 --> 16:49.520 or did he even really respect me at all? 16:49.680 --> 16:52.700 Okay, I would love to know the details of this. 16:54.120 --> 16:55.400 So who bought the food? 16:55.740 --> 16:56.940 I'm curious who bought the food 16:56.940 --> 16:58.240 because if he, let's say, 16:58.400 --> 16:59.880 let's say he bought all the food 16:59.880 --> 17:02.760 and he was like, okay, I'm gonna pay for all of this. 17:02.920 --> 17:04.240 Don't worry, I got it. 17:04.280 --> 17:06.620 And then in turn you were preparing it 17:06.620 --> 17:07.380 and cooking it. 17:07.660 --> 17:09.280 That was kind of like a deal, right? 17:09.400 --> 17:11.260 That's kind of like, oh, I contribute one thing 17:11.260 --> 17:12.380 and you contribute something else. 17:12.380 --> 17:14.360 So what if he had said, oh, you know what? 17:14.400 --> 17:15.300 I'm gonna help you in the kitchen, 17:15.360 --> 17:17.500 but let's split the cost of the food. 17:17.600 --> 17:18.700 I guarantee you she would have been like, 17:19.400 --> 17:21.700 that's so not gentlemanly, right? 17:22.180 --> 17:25.800 Okay, so is it so not feminine to be like waiting, 17:25.920 --> 17:27.680 being like, oh, you gotta help me do this? 17:27.760 --> 17:29.440 I'm just curious, like this is, 17:29.520 --> 17:31.900 and I'm not saying guys should never help in the kitchen. 17:32.180 --> 17:33.300 That's not the argument here. 17:33.760 --> 17:35.700 The argument here is that why are women 17:35.700 --> 17:37.040 always able to say, 17:37.520 --> 17:39.800 you're not doing enough in the area I need you to do. 17:39.860 --> 17:41.200 But if guys ever turned around and said, 17:41.200 --> 17:42.800 well, you're not doing enough in the area 17:42.800 --> 17:43.880 I need you to do more in, 17:43.980 --> 17:46.500 there would be like a rebellion, right? 17:47.660 --> 17:50.220 I have no problem with guys helping in the kitchen. 17:50.420 --> 17:52.780 I have no guys with problem with guys saying, 17:52.840 --> 17:54.940 hey, you know what, I'm gonna throw in, 17:55.040 --> 17:56.580 my husband will throw in like, 17:56.700 --> 17:57.180 I'll come home sometime, 17:57.320 --> 17:58.080 so we'll throw in some burgers, 17:58.420 --> 17:59.360 stuff that he likes to eat, 17:59.480 --> 18:00.000 stuff that's easy. 18:00.080 --> 18:01.740 He's not gonna go and take out a recipe book 18:01.740 --> 18:03.220 and be like, oh, a quarter teaspoon, 18:03.560 --> 18:04.400 it's not happening. 18:04.680 --> 18:06.340 But if it's just throw some burgers in the oven 18:06.340 --> 18:09.500 or it's grill something or something like that, 18:09.620 --> 18:10.040 he'll do it. 18:11.160 --> 18:14.220 There's no problem with helping to clean up. 18:14.400 --> 18:16.220 What there is a problem with, again, 18:16.860 --> 18:19.820 is expecting a guy to do, do, do, do, 18:20.000 --> 18:22.460 in the same way that you'll see these TikTok wives 18:22.460 --> 18:23.940 and they'll be like, well, my husband goes to work 18:23.940 --> 18:26.340 all day, he's not here. 18:26.620 --> 18:27.860 And then when he gets home, 18:28.020 --> 18:30.020 he expects me to have cleaned the house. 18:30.320 --> 18:33.240 And I'm like, what did you do all day? 18:33.660 --> 18:35.980 I'm just asking, what the hell? 18:36.200 --> 18:39.880 I mean, when I'm home, I'm happy to do it. 18:39.880 --> 18:43.180 If I'm not out working, I'm happy to be like, 18:43.240 --> 18:44.960 I'm gonna do the laundry, I'm gonna keep, 18:45.120 --> 18:47.780 like I don't understand, what is your freaking role? 18:48.260 --> 18:49.280 What is your role? 18:49.620 --> 18:51.800 Are you supposed to be doing for the house 18:51.800 --> 18:53.500 that you don't resent, right? 18:53.920 --> 18:56.380 If he's out working all day, and this is like a similar, 18:56.560 --> 18:59.700 it just rings like, now maybe this particular video, 18:59.820 --> 19:02.060 maybe this guy was just in in grade and they, 19:02.480 --> 19:03.180 I don't know. 19:03.600 --> 19:06.060 There are bad apples out there when it comes to men too, 19:06.060 --> 19:08.820 but just this like outrage of like, 19:08.920 --> 19:11.320 he didn't do this, he didn't do that, he didn't, 19:11.380 --> 19:13.640 and also equating him with ugly by the way, 19:13.800 --> 19:16.480 like, oh, she was probably too hot for you anyway. 19:17.140 --> 19:18.640 What are you talking about? 19:18.980 --> 19:21.520 Oh, so now it's like only an ugly guy 19:22.060 --> 19:24.920 or a guy that couldn't land a hot girl, 19:25.160 --> 19:26.620 wouldn't be helping out in the kitchen. 19:26.760 --> 19:28.100 What are you even saying, honey? 19:28.640 --> 19:32.700 Ladies, listen, if you want guys to do stuff for you, 19:33.040 --> 19:34.580 you gotta do stuff for guys. 19:34.580 --> 19:36.880 And just take a minute and consider what, 19:37.420 --> 19:38.500 I feel like guys never get credit 19:38.500 --> 19:40.400 for what they do actually do, right? 19:40.900 --> 19:43.500 So a guy could go to the store with you 19:43.500 --> 19:46.240 and you know, $300 worth of groceries 19:46.240 --> 19:49.440 and pay the bill for those groceries, bring them home 19:49.440 --> 19:51.400 and then step out to get some work done 19:51.400 --> 19:54.180 and you're like, are you gonna help me cook this? 19:54.780 --> 19:58.120 Right, it just rubs me so wrong. 19:58.700 --> 19:59.960 It's like instead of like, hey, babe, 20:00.040 --> 20:02.080 you know what, thank you, this is awesome, 20:02.220 --> 20:03.200 I'm gonna make something now. 20:03.280 --> 20:04.000 Do you want something to eat? 20:04.000 --> 20:06.560 I don't know, it just seems like it should be more 20:06.560 --> 20:08.520 of like a give and take. 20:09.140 --> 20:10.340 It just doesn't feel that. 20:10.420 --> 20:12.260 It feels like just take, take, take, complain, 20:12.560 --> 20:14.720 take, take, take, complain, like what the hell? 20:15.080 --> 20:17.420 Again, I'm not saying guys should never help in the kitchen 20:17.420 --> 20:19.580 or I have any problem with guys helping in the kitchen. 20:19.920 --> 20:23.900 It's just the demand of like what exactly happened here? 20:23.980 --> 20:25.780 Did you actually take a second to think about 20:26.380 --> 20:27.120 what happened? 20:27.180 --> 20:28.880 I would love to know, did he pay for the food? 20:29.300 --> 20:30.880 Did he, like what else was he doing 20:30.880 --> 20:31.820 while you were doing this? 20:31.820 --> 20:35.780 Was he making money to then be able to pay for all the food 20:35.780 --> 20:37.940 that you guys were eating that was like fresh cooked food 20:37.940 --> 20:39.960 or like what, what is the dynamic there? 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23:00.700 --> 23:01.900 Like that's none of your business. 23:02.540 --> 23:04.240 Like I don't ask, like that's not even a thing 23:04.240 --> 23:05.120 I really think about. 23:05.220 --> 23:07.580 It's like what's this man's body count 23:07.580 --> 23:10.700 unless he's like the town bike or the community bike 23:10.700 --> 23:12.540 which I've encountered a few times 23:12.540 --> 23:14.260 which I get wary about those guys. 23:14.540 --> 23:16.120 I'm sure they get wary about me too. 23:16.340 --> 23:17.480 So it's two way street. 23:17.780 --> 23:19.500 It's an antiquated way of thinking. 23:20.000 --> 23:21.760 Okay, again, this is a refusal 23:21.760 --> 23:24.440 to just acknowledge and see that men and women are different. 23:24.880 --> 23:26.180 So it's like, it's wild. 23:26.460 --> 23:28.040 It's like they'll say things 23:28.040 --> 23:30.260 and not the light bulb doesn't go off. 23:30.460 --> 23:32.620 Yeah honey, it doesn't matter to you 23:32.620 --> 23:34.240 unless he's like the town bike 23:34.240 --> 23:36.380 meaning like he's literally like everyone 23:36.380 --> 23:38.280 has ridden him in the town, right? 23:38.600 --> 23:41.260 Like you don't care because you don't care 23:41.260 --> 23:43.520 because women don't care about body count. 23:43.760 --> 23:47.360 But if like, if it's reverse, they do care. 23:47.760 --> 23:49.060 Guys do care because men and women 23:49.060 --> 23:50.040 care about different things. 23:50.040 --> 23:52.560 So they're not gonna take the town seriously 23:53.300 --> 23:56.240 but you could take the town bike seriously 23:56.820 --> 23:58.920 if he was really cute and it was a phase 23:58.920 --> 24:00.900 and you just don't care, right? 24:01.160 --> 24:02.900 It's just because we're different 24:02.900 --> 24:05.080 and I don't know why it's so hard for them 24:05.080 --> 24:06.420 to just step back and be like, 24:06.440 --> 24:08.620 I guess women and men value different things. 24:09.100 --> 24:10.040 I guess it just matters. 24:10.180 --> 24:12.240 What matters to us doesn't necessarily matter to them. 24:12.280 --> 24:17.560 Just like if you were piss poor Cinderella style in rags 24:18.140 --> 24:21.400 living in an attic in the step mommy's house 24:21.400 --> 24:23.480 and had not a pot to piss in of your own, 24:23.840 --> 24:24.960 the prince doesn't care. 24:25.460 --> 24:27.080 He doesn't care about your finances. 24:27.080 --> 24:30.160 But if there was a guy that was the version of Cinderella 24:30.160 --> 24:32.480 living in rags with not a pot to piss in 24:32.480 --> 24:35.480 living in the attic, nothing to offer you, 24:35.900 --> 24:38.680 women would not be flocking to that man, okay? 24:38.780 --> 24:40.640 Because we value different things. 24:40.780 --> 24:42.720 We're looking for different things 24:42.720 --> 24:44.560 and men are looking for, 24:44.660 --> 24:45.860 when they're really looking to settle down, 24:45.960 --> 24:47.040 they are looking at virtue. 24:47.040 --> 24:48.740 They are looking at different things. 24:48.900 --> 24:51.180 They're making sure that you didn't sleep around 24:51.180 --> 24:53.580 with everybody, that you have a certain morality intact, 24:53.980 --> 24:58.540 that you're not open like the 7-Eleven for the last 10. 24:58.620 --> 25:01.020 It's a nastiness to it, that you can pair bond, 25:01.380 --> 25:03.900 that you equate love and s*** together, 25:04.120 --> 25:05.920 that you're not gonna be wired for cheating 25:05.920 --> 25:07.940 all of these things and you as a woman, 25:08.260 --> 25:09.440 you're not thinking in that set. 25:09.540 --> 25:10.580 You're looking for stability 25:10.580 --> 25:11.780 and someone who's gonna provide 25:11.780 --> 25:13.340 and someone who's gonna be a rock 25:13.340 --> 25:15.240 and it's just a different set of priorities. 25:15.240 --> 25:16.740 Not to say that you necessarily, 25:16.740 --> 25:18.460 like I personally wouldn't date the town bike, 25:18.580 --> 25:19.480 like that's just, no, 25:19.820 --> 25:22.400 but not to say you're never gonna care at all 25:22.400 --> 25:23.960 if it's an extreme circumstance. 25:24.080 --> 25:25.700 Like I always say to a point, right? 25:26.240 --> 25:27.240 Women don't care about body count, 25:27.260 --> 25:28.840 but if there's a guy that literally sleeps 25:28.840 --> 25:30.100 with everything that walks, 25:30.420 --> 25:32.040 that could get to be a turn off, right? 25:32.620 --> 25:36.580 But if it's a guy that's been with 20 or 30 people, 25:36.960 --> 25:38.880 I'm telling you, women are just gonna be like, 25:38.940 --> 25:39.980 well, was he in college? 25:41.160 --> 25:43.420 That's how they watch them on interviews. 25:43.420 --> 25:45.840 That is how they speak about it. 25:45.940 --> 25:46.780 A guy will be like, 25:46.840 --> 25:48.880 okay, I guess she's in the one night category. 25:49.240 --> 25:51.660 Next, it just as men and women are different 25:51.660 --> 25:52.880 and you can fight that 25:52.880 --> 25:55.140 and you can twist yourself into a knot, honey, 25:55.220 --> 25:57.640 or you can accept it and live a happy life, your choice. 25:57.960 --> 25:59.100 Thank you all for being here. 25:59.220 --> 26:02.700 Don't forget, patreon.com backslash at a Diabela. 26:02.880 --> 26:03.960 Get to shape this show. 26:04.280 --> 26:06.280 Get to decide what we react to. 26:06.760 --> 26:08.220 Get to get a shout out on the show, 26:08.440 --> 26:10.060 patreon.com backslash at a Diabela. 26:10.260 --> 26:11.360 Get on over there now. 26:11.660 --> 26:12.800 Let's get loud, y'all. 26:12.800 --> 26:13.640 Let's get loud. 26:13.880 --> 26:14.660 Talk to you soon, bye.