WEBVTT 00:00.000 --> 00:02.860 Obviously, I want to be with a man who's more successful than me, right? 00:03.220 --> 00:06.640 And so what I realized is I'm like, damn, these men who are super successful, 00:06.840 --> 00:08.360 they have unlimited options. 00:08.360 --> 00:11.320 Whereas me as a successful woman, my dating pool is like tiny. 00:11.480 --> 00:12.500 Do you feel that as well? 00:12.660 --> 00:13.520 Yes. Yeah. 00:13.760 --> 00:17.300 Because the more successful you get as a woman, the less options you have. 00:17.680 --> 00:19.280 Right. Whereas for them, it's vice versa. 00:19.560 --> 00:21.220 Yeah. For them, it's more options. 00:21.300 --> 00:21.500 I know. 00:21.840 --> 00:23.940 Guys don't feel the need to be taken care of. 00:24.120 --> 00:25.420 They like to take care of you. 00:25.520 --> 00:27.400 So then they can literally take care of anyone. 00:27.400 --> 00:30.220 The more successful they are, they don't care if you're a waiter. 00:30.940 --> 00:32.860 They don't care if you teach or what you are. 00:32.960 --> 00:34.680 They just are like, okay, if you're the right one, 00:34.900 --> 00:36.440 it kind of is a little f*** up. 00:36.580 --> 00:39.660 Men have so much more options than women. 00:39.980 --> 00:41.120 Okay. It's true. 00:41.560 --> 00:44.180 I mean, it is true for these successful women. 00:44.440 --> 00:46.860 Because as these women climb the ladder 00:46.860 --> 00:49.860 and get more and more successful and richer and richer, 00:50.400 --> 00:53.000 these women want men who make more money. 00:53.440 --> 00:56.560 So they want, I think it's like a, I don't know what the ratio is, 00:56.560 --> 00:59.380 but if a woman makes 100K, I think they want the guy 00:59.380 --> 01:02.120 to make around like 165 or something like that, 01:02.140 --> 01:03.700 that percentage above them. 01:03.900 --> 01:05.000 I'm pretty sure it's around that. 01:05.440 --> 01:07.840 So you're just, you're decreasing your options 01:07.840 --> 01:11.700 in the marketplace, the more career successful you become. 01:11.860 --> 01:14.500 Because you're saying that you want the guy 01:14.500 --> 01:16.180 to be more successful. 01:16.580 --> 01:17.620 So you make a million dollars, 01:17.800 --> 01:20.160 you want that guy to be making more than a million, right? 01:20.240 --> 01:21.940 So you're decreasing the pool for you. 01:22.260 --> 01:24.820 Guys who become successful don't care if a woman, 01:24.820 --> 01:27.020 they don't need you to be more successful. 01:27.460 --> 01:29.500 They'll date a waitress, they'll date, they don't care. 01:29.620 --> 01:32.260 They want you to be loyal and honest and fun and positive 01:32.260 --> 01:35.260 and want to be a good mom and all the feminine traits. 01:35.600 --> 01:36.400 So they don't care. 01:36.860 --> 01:39.440 They don't need you to be successful at all in that way, 01:39.980 --> 01:42.000 in that, you know, climb the corporate ladder 01:42.000 --> 01:43.540 financially successful way. 01:43.660 --> 01:44.960 So they have a ton of options. 01:45.640 --> 01:46.840 So it's all good, right? 01:46.920 --> 01:47.380 They get it. 01:47.600 --> 01:48.940 You see like the light bulbs going off 01:48.940 --> 01:49.520 and you're like, great. 01:49.560 --> 01:51.600 But then they say at the end, that's kind of effed up. 01:51.820 --> 01:52.340 Here's the thing. 01:52.340 --> 01:55.080 It's only effed up because women are following a male path. 01:55.480 --> 01:57.200 Do you see how this would all make sense 01:57.200 --> 01:59.420 and work out if women weren't following a male path, 01:59.500 --> 02:02.860 if women weren't trying to be the successful one in that way 02:02.860 --> 02:04.520 and they were instead defining their success 02:04.520 --> 02:06.300 as being feminine and saying, 02:06.440 --> 02:08.460 well, my success is defined by a healthy home. 02:08.680 --> 02:11.180 My success is defined by children that are raised 02:11.180 --> 02:13.800 beautifully and, you know, nurtured from the get go. 02:13.900 --> 02:16.020 And my success is defined by being a supportive wife. 02:16.140 --> 02:18.020 And if all of those things were what, 02:18.040 --> 02:20.520 what they labeled as success and they were focused 02:20.520 --> 02:23.340 on that instead, then their options would widen 02:23.340 --> 02:25.840 in terms of the men that could come into their world. 02:26.200 --> 02:27.260 The delay wouldn't happen 02:27.260 --> 02:29.180 because they would have much more men to choose from. 02:29.340 --> 02:30.040 They would be attracting, 02:30.800 --> 02:32.740 but they would in fact be attracting 02:32.740 --> 02:33.960 even more successful men 02:33.960 --> 02:35.100 because they would be in their feminine 02:35.100 --> 02:37.220 and what's attracted to you and your feminine 02:37.220 --> 02:38.820 is a masculine man who's making all the money 02:38.820 --> 02:39.320 and all that stuff. 02:39.580 --> 02:41.480 This would all fix itself beautifully. 02:42.020 --> 02:44.900 Actually, if everyone was just not trying 02:44.900 --> 02:46.140 to do somebody else's path, 02:46.140 --> 02:47.820 particularly the women trying to do the male path. 02:47.980 --> 02:49.380 So it's not, it's only effed up 02:49.380 --> 02:50.240 because you're effing it up. 02:50.680 --> 02:52.960 It's only effed up because you're doing the guy's job 02:52.960 --> 02:55.360 and you're exing yourself out of the whole dating pool 02:55.360 --> 02:55.860 in the process. 02:56.380 --> 02:57.020 Wake up, ladies.