Obviously, I want to be with a man who's more successful than me, right?
And so what I realized is I'm like, damn, these men who are super successful,
they have unlimited options.
Whereas me as a successful woman, my dating pool is like tiny.
Do you feel that as well?
Yes. Yeah.
Because the more successful you get as a woman, the less options you have.
Right. Whereas for them, it's vice versa.
Yeah. For them, it's more options.
I know.
Guys don't feel the need to be taken care of.
They like to take care of you.
So then they can literally take care of anyone.
The more successful they are, they don't care if you're a waiter.
They don't care if you teach or what you are.
They just are like, okay, if you're the right one,
it kind of is a little f*** up.
Men have so much more options than women.
Okay. It's true.
I mean, it is true for these successful women.
Because as these women climb the ladder
and get more and more successful and richer and richer,
these women want men who make more money.
So they want, I think it's like a, I don't know what the ratio is,
but if a woman makes 100K, I think they want the guy
to make around like 165 or something like that,
that percentage above them.
I'm pretty sure it's around that.
So you're just, you're decreasing your options
in the marketplace, the more career successful you become.
Because you're saying that you want the guy
to be more successful.
So you make a million dollars,
you want that guy to be making more than a million, right?
So you're decreasing the pool for you.
Guys who become successful don't care if a woman,
they don't need you to be more successful.
They'll date a waitress, they'll date, they don't care.
They want you to be loyal and honest and fun and positive
and want to be a good mom and all the feminine traits.
So they don't care.
They don't need you to be successful at all in that way,
in that, you know, climb the corporate ladder
financially successful way.
So they have a ton of options.
So it's all good, right?
They get it.
You see like the light bulbs going off
and you're like, great.
But then they say at the end, that's kind of effed up.
Here's the thing.
It's only effed up because women are following a male path.
Do you see how this would all make sense
and work out if women weren't following a male path,
if women weren't trying to be the successful one in that way
and they were instead defining their success
as being feminine and saying,
well, my success is defined by a healthy home.
My success is defined by children that are raised
beautifully and, you know, nurtured from the get go.
And my success is defined by being a supportive wife.
And if all of those things were what,
what they labeled as success and they were focused
on that instead, then their options would widen
in terms of the men that could come into their world.
The delay wouldn't happen
because they would have much more men to choose from.
They would be attracting,
but they would in fact be attracting
even more successful men
because they would be in their feminine
and what's attracted to you and your feminine
is a masculine man who's making all the money
and all that stuff.
This would all fix itself beautifully.
Actually, if everyone was just not trying
to do somebody else's path,
particularly the women trying to do the male path.
So it's not, it's only effed up
because you're effing it up.
It's only effed up because you're doing the guy's job
and you're exing yourself out of the whole dating pool
in the process.
Wake up, ladies.